While speaking to a friend, I pondered this question a lot. Being one who thinks about questions from many stand points, and on many levels, I am having trouble understanding how people can wait for a significant other for so long, wasting away so much of their life? I respect the men and women in our armed forces to the highest degree, and respect everyone involved in their lives, dont get me wrong about that. But when looking at the situation from the lovers who are waiting at home; the ones that may not neccessarily be married to them; the ones that are boyfriend/girlfriend, close friends, or just an affair; how can they waste away that much of their life waiting for someone?
When speaking with her, she told me that they had recently broken up. After he broke it off, he acted like a complete jerk. Yet she forgives him when all he says is sorry. Why is it that we think with our heart instead of our minds. Does she not understand how she felt just a few days ago, before he called to apologize? Why does she give in so easily to what he says? Oh he says he'll change, but yet he blames it on her? It was her fault. I can see jealousy coming from both sides of the relationship. The soldier may think there is something going on back home, or the one back home may be worried about the soldier and their comrads. I just fear that she will get her heart broken, and this time it will be for good. I fear that while believing every feeling she has is true and correct, she will actually hurt herself. She is a great girl, and always will be, but I just dont understand how she can go on belieiving that what he says is what he will do. If he agrees that he will change, but says it was her fault, then why should he need to change? she says i dont know all of the story, and im sure i dont, but from the evidence presented, it seems to me that this guy has got her under her wing, and there is no way that she can fly away.
He recently told her who she could and could not hang out with. She admits that she had some party pictures with some guys and admits they were not appropriate, but does that mean she has to stop hanging out with those people for parties just because he says so? And the best part of this story, is that he tells her not to party with those guys, but yet he turns around and cant talk to her tonite because he is out partying as we spoke. Rediculous? To the Utmost I say. She can do better, and to anyone reading this, if the man or the woman wants you to change, then he or she does not appreciate you as you are, and will likely be trying to change you all their life, to be the person they want you to be. Why cant we love each other for who we are? We all make mistakes, its only human, so why cant we accept that and move on with our lives? It all comes down to one word... TURST
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